There are three main people when cheating happens. There is the cheater, the person that cheated, the cheated, the person that was cheated on, and the cheatee, the person that the cheater cheated on with. People always ask why the cheatee does what they do and I think they do it because they want to feel wanted. They want to feel special that somebody would actually leave their relationship for them. They might hold a grudge against the cheated and want to get revenge so they go to the cheater. So really, the cheatee is just some desperate person who wants attention. Even if the cheated and cheatee are “in love” they still should not cheat.